Growing up, I wasn’t the kind of 'different' people celebrated—I was the kind of 'weird' they wanted to tone down. Called 'too loud,' 'too much,' or 'a white girl' for simply being myself, I spent years hiding under layers of masks to fit into a world that demanded I shrink. On my 26th birthday, I finally started peeling back those layers, finding the human underneath, and reclaiming the joy of being unapologetically me. This is my story of self-discovery, anger, and ultimate liberation.
Unmasking Myself: Reclaiming the Loud, Weird Kid I Buried
From Painful Childhood Labels to Authentic Selfhood—The Journey to Becoming Whole
Jan 23, 2025

The Life I Live and The Life They Perceive
You know the drill—life is messy, unpredictable, and full of moments that make you wonder if anyone really has it all together. The Life I Live and The Life They Perceive is a snarky, honest, and unapologetically real podcast that explores the gap between the person we are, the person we’re becoming, and the version everyone else thinks they know.
Join me, a Black woman navigating the chaos of personal growth in St. Louis, Missouri, as I unpack the unfiltered realities of emotional intelligence, self-discovery, and healing. From peeling back the layers of unresolved trauma to laughing at the absurdity of it all, this is a space for anyone trying to make sense of the disconnect between who we are and how we’re perceived.
You know the drill—life is messy, unpredictable, and full of moments that make you wonder if anyone really has it all together. The Life I Live and The Life They Perceive is a snarky, honest, and unapologetically real podcast that explores the gap between the person we are, the person we’re becoming, and the version everyone else thinks they know.
Join me, a Black woman navigating the chaos of personal growth in St. Louis, Missouri, as I unpack the unfiltered realities of emotional intelligence, self-discovery, and healing. From peeling back the layers of unresolved trauma to laughing at the absurdity of it all, this is a space for anyone trying to make sense of the disconnect between who we are and how we’re perceived.Listen on
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